.dReAmS ~

tRaVeL around tHe wOrLd & own a dReAm hOuSe by tHe seAside

.dReAmLaNdS ~

dEaRiE dYdEe*
dEaRiE jU*
dEaRiE hUi*
dEaRiE zHi*
dEaRiE sZe*
dEaRiE bByUn*
aArOn kHoO
aDaM sEpEt MoO mOo
aLeX hIpPo LiEw
aLLs aka MiZ oRaNgE
anDReW fOos aDdiCt
bEn MiOw
cHeRi LeOnG
EiLeeN sEe
eRiCa LiL gUrL
eVan
iaN
jOsepH jOe
hAmMiE wEi
jEaN eE
jeFF aZraAi
jeSsLyn tAn
JiMmY pEnGuIn kOr
jOaChiM yAp
JoaNne kOh
JoEy sWeEtIe
JoLeNe LaI
JuLiA hOtTiE
JyNn
bAbY KaT
kELLy Loh
kELLy tEy
LuMmY
bLuR bLuR MeL
mEzHeN
m15
KiWi micHeLLe
meLanie tAn
mIcHeLLe mUn
MiCh gOrGeOuS
MiLLiCeNt
nEsSa
aH pEk RiCh uNcLe KaYa
pOh E
rOyA
ShEnGsTeR dInOsAuR wAnNaBe
SeAn oOi
SeRenE oNg
sOtOnG kEnG yAo
sUchitRa hottiE
Su Lin
Su Wen
V mInG
yOonG darLinG
sZe AccessoRieS (blog)
sZe AccessoRieS
yVonne
wEe wAnG wAnG
zHeN hAn
a Whiff of Lemongrass
Babe in the City
KampungbOy CitygaL
Ky eatS
Masak-masaK
BeLiNdA C
CheesErLand
dAwN yAnG
jOcYe kInKybLuEfAiRy
KhAi LeE
PiNk iS tHe nEw bLoG
xAnDrIa oOi
yAsMiN tHe sToRyTeLLeR
oLd mULtIpLy


.dReAmS iN tHe pAsT ~

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January 2009
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July 2010
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.dReAmY tALk ~



.cReDiTs ~

layout ~ jiMmY LaM k0r


29 May, 2007



Falling in love is so easy, but falling out of it is hard.
I'm having mixed feelings.
=( =( =(
thanx smally for alwis listening to me.

posted by Kathryn aT 2:19 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


23 May, 2007



outing @midV

guesss wat
1u blackout today
when we juz reached
superb =_="
hav to change venue lor
so we headed to midV
i couldnt stop laughing when i asked yang mehHh mehHh
whether his hse got electricty

went Zara while waiting for m.yang & ren jiun
kat made me SHOP, tsk tsk tsk

she n kok wee lar
they were looking for stuff but end up
i'm da one who bought top
evil evilllll!!!

we feel bad too coz da guys were waiting for us
u know how long it takes to try out lar =p

later, we decided to makan @ kim gary
but then they were closed for renovation, i guess =_="
sO changed direction, again
headed to chilli's *slurpppp*




















da lose pants make me look fat ere




















not a gd day for pic =p


































asked me to take pic but laugh laugh laugh =_="














group pic














skinny, yang meHhh mehhH, ren jiun & k.wee da metrosexual =p
yeah i'm not inside =/

posted by yiNz aT 10:51 PM | 0 mUaCkS~




awwww babe..
u made me tears
so sweet of u *hugs*
i'm so gonna miss u
miss all da days we spent together
gosh i feel like hiding u in my closet on da day u leave
damn i'm tearing again

sigh..
life is full of challenges
and we cant avoide sorrows..
rem to think positively,
be optimistic, not pessimistic k
always rem u're not alone
u hav us wif u
and also learn to be independent
or else nobody can take care of u like how i did over there

Smally '(sa)yang' Skinny
*heart*


ps: emo together lar =p

posted by yiNz aT 2:56 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


22 May, 2007



I never thought ending it could be so painful.
It's hard to said those sentence but I guess it's the only way.
Why does it hurt so much ?

Currently listening to: Aaliyah -The one I gave my heart to
Christian Wunderlich - Why Goodbye

Thanx smally for alwis be there for me, listening to me rant and cry and comforting me.
I wish i could packed u into my suitcase and brings u along with me.
But I cant =/
I will definitely miss you the most (minus my family)

Don't emo same time with me smallyy....
Mwahs!

posted by Kathryn aT 8:33 PM | 0 mUaCkS~




HapPiE bUrFdAy tO eDwIn aka kOon tAo!!





























edwin beaR!! its ur bday

thanks for all da recommendations on songs
yeah he likes emo songs Lolz
all da best in everything
and enjoy ur BIG day =p



aiks,

i'm not sleepy
how how howww
12am is like evening to me rite now
how can i tune back my bed time
still chatting wif dumbo yang meHhh mehHh~
i guess both of us will be crapping til 5, again
later yawn in class & sleep in da evening, again
and i wont be able to study well =(
am becoming panda, zombie, "kiong si" (vampire) according to U! =p







posted by yiNz aT 2:26 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


21 May, 2007



SCREW EVERYTHING !
I HATE YOUUUU.....................
I WANT TO HATE YOUUUUUUUUU BUT HATING YOU MAKES ME HURT SO MUCH..
HOW ?
TELL ME HOW ?
I NEED TO CRY BUT I CANT ..........
GOSH... SOMEONE PLEASE SAVE ME !!
SAVE ME FROM ALL THIS ! =(

posted by Kathryn aT 11:49 PM | 0 mUaCkS~




aiks sleepy lar
stayed up til 5am recently
sumore hav to do hse work dis morning
then slept w/out lunch in da afternoon
so only managed to start typing after dinner
luckily i've found some info last nite
i still hav another 300-500 words to go
i think i'm so gonna stay up til 5 again ler

but this is not as stressful as FM assign
everything is under control =)
last assign yO!
kat, joanne, kok wee, m.yang n me
are da only ones who are still awake
others sure bz lepak-ing in their dreamlands
nvm lar we still had fun by chatting on lame stuff
yeah its superb lame =p
laugh our ass off da chair

gambateh neh! =)

posted by yiNz aT 3:12 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


20 May, 2007



i'm weird
i feel better or can even say nth after i woke up dis morning
i dunno why i felt so stress last nite
but dun care lar, life has to move on rite

at least i'm not too stress or panic rite now

went skinny kat's hse to do MYOB
we were supposed to discuss n do together
but ended up *ahem* =p

however da figures are so diff than mine & m.yang's
so we decided to use mine

later, we went digital mall
but couldnt find much nice laptops

its superb sien and small
we dropped by to visit cheryl n simon

forgot to take pics wif them =/
we planned to go flea market but then
da sky doesnt allow us to go
so went back to skinny's hse
and wait for s.hong to pick me up
coz we were goin to his sis hse to see Bb!! yaYy!!

bb was Zzzz when we reached
but i couldnt stop playing & take pics wif him
hehehhe he muz be wondering
'why dis gurl keeps taking pics wif me =_=" ' =D
wat to do i love to play wif kids
yaYyy sydnee n bb jayden comin back next week too *joy*
we went pasar malam after dinner

gosh i havent start my report yet
out for da whole day, tired n sleepy Zzz
juz look for definitions first lar
since i know wat to wite for da 1500 words =p


picS picS picSss


















i found skinny's devil stick so i syok sendiri =p


















camwhoReS

















cutieeee bb wai jiannnnnn =p













i like dis pic da most =)

posted by yiNz aT 1:29 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


19 May, 2007



i'm in deep shttt now, no kidding babe
not only da one u mentioned
i'm worried bout acc B assign, law, finals..
gosh..
da stress came in a sudden
after i chat wif joanne & jessie


i felt like dropping fr da sky
da previous excitement couldnt help much
though i try to get rid of da feeling
plssss plssssss plsssssss
i dun wanna fail any sub
i wanna work hard & study smart


PLS STAY FOCUS & BE MORE HARDWORKING
pls pls pls...



*fingers crossed*

posted by yiNz aT 2:26 AM




My smally is being small today.
It seems she's in deep shit.
haha.. wtf
jus joking..
Dont worry yea. It's not getting serious.
Drop by before I head to bed.
Need to sleep early.If not, fur not nice laaaaaaaaaaaaa... =P

Nitey nitey....
Mwahs people!
* I HATE HIM LA. GOT TIME TO YUM HIS STUPID CHAR* =( =(

posted by Kathryn aT 1:35 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


18 May, 2007



i'm so sleepyyyy
coz i slept at 6am dis morning
yeah i'm becoming nite owl/ghost
i dun feel sleepy at all
if not for my mum n siblings waking up at dat time,
avoid nagging & yawning in class
i guess i would hav stay up til 7+, perhaps
yeah 12am sounds early to me now, lolz

silly me was so dumb
i did my myob transactions
but then i cant find da transactions journals
i was like shttt wats wrong wif me/da program
i dunno whether to laugh or cry or angry
i juz feel helpless..
therefore i din do anything coz its pointless
but then i dun feel like doin tute work
ended up chatting, surfing, look back acc A assign..

joanne has no idea bout it
ming yang cant help as well
its weird rite
but then when i checked it once again
i realised something
i DIDN'T change da date to view my entries
yeah i'm silly, dumb & blur...
as i mentioned earlier, da program made our brain spin like da thrill rides

later, i was so semangat to continue doing
its actually not dat tough,
but da booklet doesnt provide more in-dept details
so dats part of da reason why i stayed up so late
besides that, it passed my bed time so i dun feel sleepy at all

okiesss..
continue wif my work
i need to Zzzz earlier d






oH yeah a late post for nel'C 20th


HapPie 20tH bUrStdaY nel'C

guess u're enjoying life over there

all da best in eveything =)

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posted by yiNz aT 10:47 PM


17 May, 2007


when can i get rid of assignment

went uni to discuss acc B assign yesterday
da weather was so cooling, so nice to sleep
i always miss da opportunity to sleep in sucha nice weather =/
joanne overslept, hehehhe
kat, kok wee n ming yang n i started da discussion first
discussion plus chit-chatting plus stalking high skool magS
so funny lar looking back at our old skool days =D


kat n i went to comp lab after lunch
oH we got our result for acc B assign 1
i was so shocked & surprised when i found it
i quickly asked kat to come over coz i couldnt believe it
its extremely good man
i'm not saying i'm gd or wat but
i juz cant believe, including kat
we never expect and think dat we could ever get sucha NICE figure
but many ppl did scored well for it ler

we attended mich's IM tute today

da ONLY ang moh in our IM was there too

but i'm not interested lar, lolz
later, we had lunch @ orange together
yeah orange reopened
ming yang n his fren (sry dunno how to spell) joined us as well

something stewpit happened
i ordered JUST TEA, i asked da waiter wat colour (flavours) they hav
but he couldnt answer me
ok fine..
i tot he knows wat is JUST TEA or at least get me da right can drink
so i ordered orange/red
later,
he brought me a cup of tea instead of a CAN DRINK
ok fine..
i tot its iced lemon tea so doesnt matter lar
but u know wat
it was so bitterrrrr
i dunno wat da hell is dat
then he said its jasmine tea
damnnn jasmine tea is nice only when its hot
i asked him to add lemon
wait n wait n wait...
he came back w/out lemon
he said da fella doesnt allow him to add
coz it is not supposed to hav lemon in it
aiks..
juz pay lor..wat to do
unlucky me =/

anothe stewpit thing happened to me yesterday too
but dis is my fault lar
a LESSON for me
i like to slip money in my purse coz i lazy to open it
soOooo,
i forgot bout it until late evening
i guess i drop it when i was paying @ pink, in da afternoon
haihz..50 bucks leh
sure sad for awhile ler
but then i know i wont get it back ler
get over it d..
hopefully whoever who picked it up would use it for a gd deed
or it could help he/she in something

back to orange
poor mich ordered milk butter chic
but after waiting for 40 mins,
da guy brought something which is not milk butter chic
and u know da workers there are not locals
so its hard to COMMUNICATE wif them man
at last she has to cancel it n go back to cafeteria
coz she has class in another 15 mins,
poor gurl..

kat n i went to comp lab after lunch
we tried to do our acc B n check out he accomodation
yeahhh she's leaving
i'll miss her more o otherwise? heheheh
lesbo lesbo =p
we were bored so asked ming yang to go yum char
4 of us cant even make up our mind where to go
keep pushing each other, lolz
so ended up settled @ asia
as usual lor, laughters, lame jokes, chit-chat
kat n i NEVER stop laughing & mocking each other
forgot bout camwhoring in asia
but we took pics in his car coz kat found a cute pillow =p
but then we hav to run in when it started to rain
so heavy dat we couldnt run back to our car
hence waited til its drizzling
met julia, kelly they all who were bz doin assign in starbucks

was figuring out myob da whole nite
its 5+ in da morning d
da system is soOo troublesome
it seems easy but until u really work on it,
it makes ur head spin @_@
but then u feel so semangat when u find out da right ways
i dun feel like Zzzz but then got class later
gd luck to us man *fingers crossed*

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posted by yiNz aT 5:24 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


16 May, 2007



You know when there's time you feel like just screwing everything up *including exams, friends, wuteva wuteva*
You know you are getting depressed when nothing seems to faze you.
Finals around the corner? you don't feel scared.
Shopping? You shop for the sake of wasting money or maybe sometimes hoping that shopping can makes you feel better.
You want to cry. But you cant seem to cry.
You laugh for the sake of laughing. So that people will never see your weakness.

You know what am I feeling?
Nothing at all...
I got no feelings at all now.
I feel numb when I look at him.
I feel sad when he acted that way.

I stop crying the day you walk away from yourself.
I stop feeling down the day you think you are right.
I just stop crying because I repeatedly tell myself you are not worth it.

Girlfriends rock! Without my VVIP, I don't know how long I can stand.
How strong I can become.
Girlfriend lend you her shoulder when you need to cry.
Girlfriend is alwis there for you despite the ramblings you repeatedly made.

Love you lots, my smally girlfriend...
You made me a stronger person! Triple mwah(s).

posted by Kathryn aT 8:41 PM | 0 mUaCkS~




hehehehhe we had a wonderful lunch time today@ pink
da topic was on WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES
yeah i know its dat topic again
coz they were talking bout Battle of the Sexes
so happened my book was there
hahahha

aiks,
IM lec is boring as usual
many ppl absent

some rushing for IB, i guess

i came across dis website bout topless sandals
only available in philippines =/
its creative
but then i will feel one kind when i wear it, perhaps
u can check it out
http://toplessphilippines.multiply.com/


Estranged ~ Itu Kamu

Segala yang ku pasti akan aku capai tuk mengambil hati mu
Melepasi angkasa cinta ku
Sesudah aku melafazkan kesemua yang diperlu
Ianya seperti suluhan yang terang

Segala yang kau ragui akan ku padam habis dari hati mu
Mengingkari dalaman akal mu
Takkan puas ku, mengiringi semua tawa dan tangisan mu,
Anggun wajahmu, pelita yg terang

Hatiku mahu mu
Rupa mu
Masih masih masih masih…

(Chorus)
Kau terindah
Masih ada
Yang tercantik
Itu Kamu

Tiada mengapa taupun sampai bila kerna cinta enggan kenal mengalah
Memanah masuk hatiku yang reti
Setelah kau nampak tetap ku masih menunjukkan erti hidupku
Yang mahu bersama kau buat selamanya…

Lyrics source: Jiwang.org

always heard dis song in fly fm
but cant get its title
so decided to find out in fly's web
and yes, i found it =)
i was surprise when i saw da VJ Andy is da drummer for dis band
i tot its somebody who looks like him
but i google seach and turned out its him

posted by yiNz aT 2:30 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


13 May, 2007



went IM lec today
only 10-15 students, as expected =D

we had been good k,
we paid attention but became restless
when da hall was getting freazy & da clock ticking at 12+
guess wat, we camwhore during break, normal lar =p











later, we car pool mich's car to pyramid

coz we wanna "relax" abit
afte handing in few assign, left acc B =(

soh poh kat induced me to go Kim Gary
but she herself didnt order food, only her fav milo
i wanna SMACK u d sOh poH kattttttt
i hav no idea why many of them like to go KG when we're in pyramid
but then baked cheese fish fillet is so yummyyyyy *drool*
and kat's ice blended milo is niceeeee too

































yummyyyyy *slurps*


we were curious coz ppl were staring at us as if we're aliens =_="
i hate it!?!
later,
da gurls n guys next to us turned around to look at my book (my baby =p)
WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES
yeah its veli eye-catching =)
gurls, listen n trust me,
u should get a copy of dis
i wont reveal much but wat was written inside
happened to most of us
she analysed da issues, probs & scenarios precisely
if u wanna play ur card right,
refer to dis book, kudos yO miss Argov =p

it makes me change my mindset
and boost up my confidence
sometimes i feel like relationship is juz like fishing
u have to pull back once awhile...
hmmm act its pretty tough to follow everything dat she suggested
nvm, we'll fight for it
so,
BITCH or NICE GURL, choose one
i hope i can be in between =p
but being a bitch is much happier, carefree..perhaps =)

hmm..
guys will definitely say why do gurls like to read dis kind of books
but who cares
its not for them wurt rite =p



















recent purchase =)

after eating, we went back to my hse

we looked back at our CPU mag
it brings back lotsa memories back to us
but its so funny when i look back at my kiddy face back then
my fringe was horrible, hehehhe
haihz, i miss those days so muchhhh

hmm act kat n i were fr same course (CPU)
but then we didnt talk to each other
we juz knew each other existed, weird & wth rite?
hahhaha we cant stop laughing when we think bout it
i guess we never expect to be dis close back then
hehehhe fated, wtf? sounds so lesbo
yeah dats wat alex said
we're becoming lesbo d, heheheh

so, we started our nail session at nite
bz painting, tying hair & not forgeting camwhoring
guys sure shake head "mou gan tai" =p

BEWARE: soH pOhS aLeRt










































































































katZ new naiL aRt
yinZ old naiL aRt


dumbo andy dropped by at 11+

he was MIA for quite some time
we were quite worried n curious, dumb fella
sometimes its fun to talk to him but sometimes not
he likes to bully me, kick me..
so violent & not gentleman
but i used to it d lar

we can talk bout many things,
however, i couldnt stand dis wacko's weird thinking & behaviour at times
he's pretty vain, high self-esteem or over confident
somehow its a gd thing coz he'll encourage u to be confident,
his words did convinced me, boost up my confidence level
especially after i read my baby book, so gambateh gurl!
yun might be laughing her ass off when she sees this, heheheh
coz we cant stand his craps most of da times =D






































he ASKED me to take pics of him
vainnnn..=_="















oHhhh its 2 am d

HaPpY MuMmY's dAy
to mUmmY deaR, gRandMa & all mothers in da world

you all have been wondeful,
raise me up wif love and cares
i love u all as always
pls dun leave me soon
i cant bear wif anybody leaving dis world
i rather i'm the one who leave first
i guess i'm being selfish here =p
but i dun wan anything to happen to them
anyway i hope everybody lives healthily
hav a great day ahead =)

it has been a week since kakak left
hmm but i felt like she had left us for like 1 month?
kinda miss her too lar =p

















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posted by yiNz aT 2:45 AM | 0 mUaCkS~


09 May, 2007



hApPie bUrStdAy to MuMmY dEaR!!!

one yr older d but u're still looking young as always =p
all da best in ur business and hope everything goes well
live healthily and happie always =)
LoVe yA!! =p






























we had dinner at dis restaurant called
Janbo
i think they sort of imitate da HK Jumbo
coz their logo is oso a big ship
but the food there are pretty good
cod fish, seafood platter, egg yolk prawn, shark fin...
was bz eating hence didnt take pics

pink is open again, yaYy
ben n edwin were debating bout transfer to aussie
tsk tsk tsk..
both have their gd reasons
but it was so hilarious listening to them =D

hahhaha i met dis guy chi/chee loong? in uni yesterday
we were shocked when we met
he asked whether i'm from pc fair
i asked him back too coz he was wearing spec so cant really recognise himhe also knows ah hoong, wee they all,
another klang kaki coz they speak Hokkien =_="
he was selling Sony cam in pc fair
right in front of my booth
wat a small world man
he's taking IM too but i didnt see him before
he looks mature so i tot he's working, lolz

da twins look damn alike rite now
mayb coz ah hoong's hair is similar to wee's
guess they hav da same hairstylish, lolz

haihz,
everybody is so bz wif their assignments
its cracking our brain
not much time left for revision
scareeeee...
work hard, GAMBATEH neh! =)


Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow.
Anthony J.D'Angelo, Author to the College Blue Book.

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posted by yiNz aT 11:40 PM | 0 mUaCkS~


06 May, 2007



Here come my "independant" days~

kakak LEFT
we sent her to airport dis morning, early morning..
all woke up at 4+
juz slept 3 hrs coz was doin FM (i hate it!)
didnt feel like waking up
but i know i'll surely regret if i dun
these red-eye flights are real "torturing"
its niceee to speed at dis hour
no cars, no speed trap (i guess =p)
but it was out of my expectation when we reached there
i tot da airport will be veli quiet
wif around 10+ ppl but i was wrong

haihz,
airport is a happie yet sad place
happie when u're goin overseas for hol
sad when ppl leaving
i hate farewells, NEVER like it
i become veli emotional when it comes to dis issue
but normally i cant tears even when i force myself to
argh i dun like it
i even started to tears on da way there
and worse part is dumbo me put on emo songs
straightaway "rain"
haihz..

i've been starting to tears few days ago
i told myself to control, control, control today
dun wanna cry in front of them
i juz couldnt describe the emptiness dat i felt
some of them might laugh at me
but i guess they wont un how i felt
i kept thinking bout she's leaving and all
it juz keep my mind occupied these few days
she's juz like one of my family member
we stayed together for so long, see each other everyday
though we're not really close
she jokes wif my frens as well
i sort of rely on her
but i know part of the reason is oso we wont hav maid anymore
F.Y.I, i did hse work when i was young too
and during da time when kakak went back for a month
mum would have to do most of da jobs
will try to help her
but i guess more naggings are comin =/

we reached subang around 7
was looking for da usj21 dim sum
lucky us coz they open at 7
so we were among da 1st customer of da day
but hav to wait for them to cook lor
i didnt know ppl will wake up so early for breakfast
saw dis guy whom i believed is part-timer in da shop
he was fr my primary skool, 1 yr younger
gd memory huh
hehehhe..act i rem him becoz he still looks da same
and he is quite gd looking, lolz
anyway i'm not interested lar =p

life just become so different
i feel one kind when i saw her empty room
i was suprise that da impact is so huge
anyway, i hope she's doin fine over there
live healthily and good luck in he future undertakings =)
sleepyyyy... Zzzzz


my another fav song

Gwen Stefani ~ 4 In The Morning

Wakin up to find another day
The moon got lost again last night
But now the sun has finally had it’s say
I guess I feel alright

But it hurts
when I think,
when I let it sink in
It’s all over me
I'm lying here in the dark
Watchin you sleep, it hurts a lot

[Bridge]
And all I know is you’ve got to give me everything
Nothing less 'cause you know I give you all of me

[Chorus]
I give you everything that I am
I’m handin over everything that I’ve got
Cause I wanna have a really true love
Don’t ever wanna have to go and give you up
Stay up till four in the morning and the tears are pouring
And I wanna make it worth the fight

What have we been doing for all this time
Baby if we’re gonna do it come on do it right

All I wanted was to know I'm safe
Don’t wanna lose the love I found
Remember when you said that you would change
Don’t let me down

It’s not fair, how you are
I can’t be complete, can you give me more
[Bridge][Chorus]

Oh please, you know what I need
Save all your love for me
We can’t escape the love
Give me everything that you have
[Bridge][Chorus]

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posted by yiNz aT 10:35 PM | 0 mUaCkS~


05 May, 2007



andrew n i were late for FM tute today
yes, replacement for tues
and we're "hardworking" enuff to attend sat class, lolz
ended up bz on9 & copy answer only

was suppose to discuss IM wif kat in uni
but then dat woman bz doin hair treatment
so da venue changed to my hse
heheheh, we were discussing but popek, on9, camwhoring at da same time
it always happen when u hav discussion at home =p















yayay, my com, cam, blog etc are full of he pics d, =p













































say TAK NAK to chocS


















































































i hav no idea wat was she doing =D



















found this in email
its a pretty gd reference =)



Love vs Infatuation

What, then, is the elusive thing called "Love" that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as "Infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here below are the differences. Find out if you are really in love and not just infatuated.


Infatuation

Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the Emotions and the Will are involved.

Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Gentlemen, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation. It is based totally on physical attraction; Often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus infatuation is mostly biological.

Also remember, never tell a woman you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other person.
Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.


Love

Now you understand what is infatuation, let us now go on to discuss about Love.

1. Love is Patient

The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out of her shell, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view – maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.

Have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, Love is willing to give the relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.

2. Love is Kind

Love seeks to encourage and build up on others. It respects the feelings and emotions
of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy, i.e. Compliment one another, magnify the other's strength, Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important, etc.

3. Love is not Jealous

Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

4. Love is not to Brag

Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often, a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself. Others will exalt him.

5. Love is not Arrogant

Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky or stuck up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanor implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you". Of course this is not love.

6. Love always Covers

This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with faults of others. It doesn't criticize or broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is present even when it knows the other is not perfect.

7. Love always Perseveres

Love always stands its ground and holds out . It will outlast anything. It will even love on the face of unreturned love. Real love will last through all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

8. Love is not Provoked

This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centered not self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I want to give you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

9. Love does not act Unbecomingly

This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonorably, or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its actions. It is characterized by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl or offering her your arm when you walk together.

10. Love is Forgiving

Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is only an hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

posted by yiNz aT 9:32 PM | 0 mUaCkS~


04 May, 2007



skipped law tute yesterday
coz i'm tired n brian skipping as well
so happen ady asked whether i need a lift or not
hence...we headed to ss15
coz i was craving for "tong shui" (dessert)
yeah i know im notty n "wai sek"
as i always say,


i juz couldnt & NEVER EVER resist FOOD =p

joanne missed acc b tute
so only kat n me, like last week
heheheh we were giggling again
but miss didnt question us dis time, luckily
soh poh kat kept bugging me to go aussie
if jacket loose then i'll hav reason to hunt for a new one
bill on u ar kat...lolZ
hehheheh..
jason gave khai yeing a veli cute key chain bear
so sweetttt
soh poh kat took pic wif da bear























































yeah, we camwhore in da loo. lolz


kakak goin back d dis sun
so sad...
parents and all said u're lucky & blissful to hav maid to serve u for da past 15 yrs
aiks..
i'm not pampered or wat
but juz feel sad
she has been working wif us for almost 6 yrs
if not for her blardy $$ relatives
guess she wont go back so soon
but pity her children as well ler

sigh..
hav to do hse work..
so tiring...
and studies are killing
sobsob...
pls kill me...

posted by yiNz aT 11:16 PM | 0 mUaCkS~



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